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AFFINITY EXCHANGE SUCCESS STORY
ANTHONY PEACOCK AND LUDMILLA BABINA
From Ludmilla: I’m from Moscow. In January 2010 I was in Los Angeles when a friend told me about The Affinity Exchange and helped me join. The very next day I received an email from Anthony! I actually received a lot of reaches. Anthony did not appeal to me as I did not want to relocate to Australia, plus I had considerations about his work. However, I had enough manners to answer him.
Meanwhile, I was dating quite a few men, plus being in comm with others out of town. But Anthony was very persistent. Because I still wasn’t interested, I wrote him that I was in love with someone else. He was upset and wrote several messages back. He informed me that he had told someone that I’d be his wife. I was not happy with this, as I cannot stand when somebody forces me and declares me as his wife without reasons, but nevertheless I was always polite.
He then asked me to market him to other Russian girls, which I did. I also offered to help him with his profile. As I continued to edit and read his revisions, I found I liked what he wrote. I did not like his photos so made some suggestions. The new photos were much better and I found I now liked his looks. The poems he sent me to check seemed to be about me, which I found irritating. He’d occasionally ask about the guy I was in love with. I’d say it was going along. However, my attraction to him was growing.
Two months passed. I had comm with a German man, and it was disappointing. I found myself wanting to tell Anthony about it, and finally did. We then started to Skype—first in writing, then by voice. He complimented my voice. After four days of communicating this way, I discovered that I couldn’t live without his communication!
At that time I had eleven men on my lines. Two were especially highly qualified, but I found I was so engaged communicating with Anthony, I didn’t have time to communicate with the others. After Anthony found out about all the other men, he told me I was bored. Amazingly enough, that indicated to me! Then I told him he was just like the others and wanted to marry me. He said, “No. Maybe I’ll decide you’re not for me. Maybe I’ll reject you.” Then I found myself really getting interested.
We upgraded to Skype visual, and when he first saw me, he just sat there and smiled—admiring, but somehow different. It was very valuable to me. When he told me that he felt in love, I answered that I didn’t know how to react. But we kept communicating, day and night. I analyzed his messages and tested him in various ways, but I found that he never made me wrong.
A few weeks later, I flew to Perth. The moment we met, I liked him. During dinner I watched how he talked to me and to the waiter. He delivered what I needed and wanted. I decided then that if he asks me to marry him, I would say yes. The next morning he got down on one knee, presented a ring, and, of course, I said yes. I knew I had found the correct man!
Thank you, Marcia, for helping us find one another!
From Anthony: A fellow staff member at the Perth church told me about The Affinity Exchange. I signed right up. I had an idea of what I was looking for. There were choices, but nothing worked out. Remembering my previous interest in astrology, I researched a bit and found I was a Gemini Monkey. I learned that the most compatible partner for me would be a Libran Rat. This really narrowed the search. I wrote Marcia, and she suggested I broaden my search and include Russia.
Early January 2010 I spoke to a friend and he told me he’d written down a list of needs and wants (99 points) in order to find his wife. With this in mind, I compiled my list and came up with 104 points. Anyway, I postulated that my next relationship would click and not be efforty.
Each night I would search Affinity Exchange. One day, up comes Ludmilla—beautiful, and a Libran Rat!! I was amazed. I showed her to my roommates and told them, “I’m going to marry that girl.” I sent her a message and we entered into a “penpal” friendship.
We communicated quite a bit, but then she told me about being in love with someone else. I was devastated. I decided to pull a reverse vector—I asked her to help market me. She did, and I got in comm with other ladies—but all the while wanting her. I asked her to look over my poems, which were, of course, really about her. Meanwhile she was telling me why she was rejecting other men. She was always looking for negatives and putting me through tests. Finally, when she originated to me about her upset with someone she’d met, I felt the communication move to a new level, at which point I gave her my full attention.
Her comm about how qualified some of her suitors were caused me to feel invalidated. “I’m just a staff member,” I said. Then I found out she had been bragging to her friends, saying “He’s been a staff member for 10 years!” Turns out she saw me as a bit of a hero; she respected me for being dedicated to helping others. That granting of beingness meant a lot to me. I noticed how often she told me what she liked about me.
When I knew she was coming to visit, I raced to the jewelry store, saw a ring with a blue stone the color of her eyes and bought it. Cleaned the car, put blankets on the seats, bought a dozen roses and raced to the airport.
When I saw her, she looked like a queen. I gave her a delicate kiss, opened the car door for her, took her to dinner—was truly on my best behavior. The next day I got down on my knee and proposed. She said Yes! A dream come true.
She then visited me three more times in Perth, and I visited her once in Moscow. Note that at one point in the relationship, a rough spot occurred wherein she ended the relationship. I went right to work on fixing the problem and asked her to take me back. She said I would have to re-propose. We were racing to the airport, so I had to think fast how to do this. I saw a lake and quickly pulled off the freeway and drove to the lake. I stole a rose from someone’s garden, then spotted a park bench. I sat her there, gave her the rose, pulled a ring off my finger, got down on my knee, and proposed again. I was so happy when she said Yes. But the most amazing part of the story is that she pulled out a little journal from her purse and showed me a picture of her ideal proposal that she had sketched before she met me. Her sketch matched what had just happened—park, bench, lake, man on one knee with flower and the ring!! I think we were destined to be together.
We came together again in Los Angeles, which is where we got married. Once the visa stuff is handled, she will live with me in Perth. Thank you, Marcia, for creating the avenue wherein we were able to find one another.
PAUL GLENSKI and LILE MILENKOVSKA
From Lile: When it came to my love life, I had lots of hopes, usually followed by failures. But I kept searching and hoping. Finally I realized my main mistake: I kept on choosing the wrong type of man. So I decided to change that.
I found out about The Affinity Exchange about 6 years ago but didn’t like the idea of finding my mate that way–it was totally unreal to me; so I continually refused to put my profile on it.
After experiencing another disappointment, I said to myself, “Okay, let`s just peek into Affinity Exchange, just to see what is it all about.” So I created a skimpy little profile with just one picture and some generalities, but I blew it off when I had to say something about myself. A year later, after quite a few reminders from Marcia to fill out my profile all the way, I decided to do so. Once it was approved, I started to look for prospects and I sent Hello’s to some. After three weeks of occasionally doing so, Paul replied with a message that said “I had to Google Skopje, Macedonia to find out where you live.” Ha-ha…
After couple of days, we started to Skype and kept on Skyping every night. What interested me most in this man was that he smiled a lot and greeted me with excitement, and we had such great communication—just what I needed! Two weeks later I felt I was falling in love with him.
It was the smoothest relationship ever, even from the beginning! I was amazed at how easy it was for us–no effort, no misemotion, no doubts… just nice and easy. Two months after we met on AE, he flew to Macedonia to visit me; then I went to visit him in Florida. I loved it there. We spent four months together and found out we were perfect for each other.
Eighteen months later, in the summer of 2011, we got married. It was the happiest day of my life! I wish our wedding party could have lasted for a week!
Paul has made me a very happy woman. He is totally the man I was looking for. Can you imagine not having a single fight in almost two years?! How wonderful is that?! Not to mention little surprises I get from him now and then, the way he looks at me when he tells me how fortunate he is to have me… and lots of little beautiful things he emanates as a person. I am a very much loved woman, and I`m hopelessly in love with my husband!
Whenever somebody asks me how we met, I proudly say, “The Affinity Exchange site.”
I`ve recommended it to all my single friends, as thanks to AE and its creator Marcia, I found my perfect match!
From Paul: Using The Affinity Exchange, I met a wonderful woman named Lile. I feel truly lucky and fortunate to find such a loving, caring, and thoughtful woman who loves me so much! We got married this past July. Let me start at the beginning of the story.
I joined AE about two years ago. I lived in Clearwater, Florida, and was looking for a girlfriend who lived in that area. I started to get communication from women in Russia and I thought that was so weird. Actually it irritated me. I would simply delete the emails. Then I read an email from Marcia where she recommended acknowledging all communication. Made some sense.
Shortly after that I received a communication from Lile, who lived in Macedonia. “Where’s that?” I thought. I had to Google it (it’s near Greece). Following Marcia’s recommendation, I replied with an email. After one week Lile and I started to Skype. That was November. I had no intention of having a 2D with her due to the distance, etc, but I did enjoy the conversations. We talked almost every day for two months. What impressed me the most was our comm cycle, which was very smooth, easygoing and enjoyable.
By December she wanted me to come and visit, but I was fearful. I told her stories about the Albanian mafia and human trafficking and how I was concerned for my safety. She would laugh and tell me not to worry. I also had negative considerations on having long distance relationships, but we just kept skyping. This may sound corny, but I started to fall in love. Her eyes were so bright and she was always so eager to see me, plus that wonderful and endearing smile! I managed to change my considerations about distance, safety, etc. and went to visit her in January for two weeks, after which we knew we would be a good match.
We have known each other now for almost two years. It has been remarkably smooth–not one argument or upset. I never thought I’d be able to find someone so compatible.
We are now living in Macedonia with the idea of moving to Istanbul. Wow! Have things changed for me–and with very little effort. That’s the truly amazing part! Thank you, Marcia.